Friday, 16 June 2017

THIS IS HOW TO RELATE


Never try to put your personal responsibilities on others.
Be responsible at first and people will surely tangibly testify to it.
You don't ask for a financial assistance from your mentor. Mentor-ship differ from Sponsorship.
A mentor can sponsor, but that is not the major aim of mentor-ship. Mentor-ship are meant for impartation and transfer of unction to function.
In courtship relationship, or relationship that can lead to marriage. You don't use style and be financially demanding. It is wrong. You are not in the first place looking for sponsor and that platform is never a right place to be placing demand or asking for financial help.
If truly you are deep with a person, the person will actually do something without you asking.
A relationship meant for divine purpose or impartation of anointing or knowledge must never be relegated to financial assistance status.That financial aspect comes out to play naturally if God wants it to be so.
Once you noticed in a courting relationship that has not solidify into marriage, one party is making undue demand, then try and correct it by saying courteously you might not be able to do the demand.
It is better to sow into those you want God to transfer anointing through them into you. Give willingly to them. And never try to financially sap them dry.
It is better to serve people like Elijah's so the double portion can be yours.
Mark those men or women who are only out to relate with you because of money.It may be hard to recognize them anyway unless you're very patient.
Give to God freely, and to His works.
It is better to ensure you are credible before opening your mouth for any financial assistance. Else let mercy speak on your behalf.
Its not wrong to ask for what you need really, but be sure your asking won't make you loose the relationship.
Take people not for granted, no matter how close you are to them.
Pay your debts and show genuine concern about your indebtedness.
I personally prefer those who show responsibility by credibility to ask for loans instead of free gifts.
If you are friends, be free to express your need, but be careful not to exert undue pressures.
Many are actually taking advantages of others out there to siphon or deceive.Don't fall into fraudsters' trick all in the name of love or friendship.
Let God lead you. Relate well with people and with integrity.
God bless.

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